About
I am a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) and psychodynamic psychotherapist, holding a PhD from Tel Aviv University.
I have worked in psychiatric hospitals, outpatient clinics, and residential treatment settings in the United States and Israel and I currently practice in the Netherlands.
Over the years, I have worked with individuals facing a wide range of emotional and psychological difficulties, including anxiety, depression, eating disorders, psychotic conditions, and complex relational challenges.
I am originally from Israel and spent eight years living and working in the United States before relocating to the Netherlands. My work today is conducted in English and Hebrew, with clients from a variety of cultural and national backgrounds.
Approach
Psychotherapy can be understood in many ways. For me, it is essentially a process of learning about oneself — done through an unusual kind of conversation, one that allows for a depth of reflection and emotional honesty that everyday life rarely makes room for.
My work is primarily informed by psychodynamic and psychoanalytic thinking — Freudian, Lacanian, object relations, relational, self-psychology — all of which, in their different ways, attempt to make the unconscious conscious. In therapy, we explore recurring emotional patterns, internal conflicts, and relational dynamics that often shape how a person experiences themselves and others, frequently without their awareness.
I do not see therapy as a space for applying a fixed theory to a person. Each person is unique, and theory is only useful insofar as it helps us understand the individual in front of us.
At times, more structured or practical interventions — CBT techniques, DBT skills, a solution-focused approach — may also be useful, depending on what the situation calls for. Different forms of psychological understanding can coexist within the same therapeutic process.
People often come to therapy with a specific problem they want to work on, only to find, in time, that something else — deeper, older, still unresolved — is actually what has been troubling them. Recognizing that together is usually one of the first important steps.
My role is not to tell you what to do or what to think. It is to listen carefully, and to help you listen to yourself — so that what you already know about yourself becomes more available, more intelligible, and ultimately more useful to you.

Nir Yehudai
Ph.D., L.C.S.W
Affiliations:
CSPP (Connecticut Society of Psychoanalytic Psychology)
BPSW (Beroepsvereniging van Professionals in Sociaal Werk)
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Languages:
Hebrew and English
Professional experience:
2015-Present: therapist in private practice.
2019-2020: Clinical social worker at Yale New Haven Psychiatric Hospital, New Haven.
2016-2019: Clinician at “Integrated Wellness Group” out-patient clinic, New Haven.
2014-2015: Clinician at the Eating Disorders unit, “Ha’Notrim” Clinic, Ra’anana, Irael.
2013-2014: Clinician at the Anxiety and Depression unit, “Ha’notrim” clinic.
2013-2014: Residential counselor at “Emtsa Haderech” eating disorders rehabilitation home, Hod-Hasharon, Israel.
2012-2013: Clinician at “Shalvata” psychiatric hospital, Hod Hasharon, Israel.
Education:
PhD. the School of Philosophy, Linguistics and Science Studies, Tel-Aviv University (2022).
MSW, Master of Clinical Social Work, Yeshiva University, New York (2014).
BA, Psychology, Tel-Aviv University (2012).
BA, History and Political Science, Tel-Aviv University (2005).
Training:
2016-2018: Psychodynamic Psychotherapy training program at the Western New-England Psychoanalytic Institute, New Haven.
2016-2018: Psychoanalytic theory studies, scholar’s program at the Western New-England Psychoanalytic institute, New Haven.
2014-2015: Eating Disorders treatment and diagnosis post-MSW training, The Weisfeld School of Social Work, Bar-Ilan University. Ramat Gan, Israel.